Irena (Nielpinski) Carling

Irena (Nielpinski) Carling

Irena (Nielpinski) Carling, 78, of Rancho Viejo, Texas, wife of Roy Shaw, died May 17, 2018, in Brownsville, Texas. She was born in Drohiczyn, Poland, was formerly of West Hartford for 25 years, and lived in the Brownsville, Texas area for 46 years.
She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, a member of the Swedish Club, Bristol, Ct. and a volunteer at Valley Baptist Brownsville. She was preceded in death by her first husband, Conrad I Carling in 1994 (a marriage of 28 years), and a son, Conrad Mikael Carling in 1988. Besides her husband of 13 years, she leaves two sons, Douglas Conrad Carling of McDonough, Ga., and Donald Ivan Carling of Spring, Texas; a daughter, Elizabeth Helen Deaton of Rancho Viejo, Texas; a Step-Daughter, 8 grandchildren, 4 great grandchildren; numerous nieces and nephews; three sisters and a brother and many cousins in Poland.
Dual services will be held; one in Brownsville, on Wednesday, May 23, 2018 at Sunset Memorial Funeral Home from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m., with a recitation of the Holy Rosary to be held at 7:00 p.m., and at the Rose Hill Funeral Home, 580 Elm St., Rocky Hill, Ct. (date to be determined). Burial will be in Rose Hill Memorial Park, Rocky Hill.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society.


  • Lupita Cervanates Carr Posted May 21, 2018 3:17 pm

    My deepest condolences for the loss of a wonderful wife and mother. May God the Almighty hold your hand and comfort you for only He can heal this deep hurt in your hearts. She will be dearly missed by all and especially me who shared so many wonderful moments and witnessed her kindness and compassion towards others. God has taken an angel from earth to delight himself.

  • Rosie Menchaca Posted May 21, 2018 9:25 pm

    Mrs. Deaton, my deepest condolences to you and your family. May God give you all that peace in His arms and comfort that only He can give you during this time of sorrow. My prayers will be always with you and your family! Love you my dear friend!

  • Pamela Bruce Posted May 21, 2018 10:39 pm

    What a wonderful woman to have been honored to know.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this sad time.
    Larry and Pam Bruce

  • Lorrie Posted May 22, 2018 3:52 pm

    I loved you Irene. You were like my 2nd mom .I will miss u .Liz all my prayers r with ur family. Love always lorrie

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